How to Meet People in Illinois as a Newcomer

Making friends as an adult is hard. Making friends in a new state is harder. Here's what works.

Start with Structure

Join Groups

• Park district classes

• Religious communities

• Professional associations

• Sports leagues (many adult rec leagues)

Volunteer

• Food banks

• Community events

• School activities (if you have kids)

• Local nonprofits

Use Technology

Apps & Platforms

• Meetup.com (thousands of Illinois groups)

• Nextdoor (hyperlocal connections)

• Facebook groups (like Illinois Community!)

• Bumble BFF

Location-Specific Tips

Chicago

• Neighborhood-based activities

• Industry networking events

• Cultural organizations

Suburbs

• Park district programming

• Kids' activities create parent connections

• Chamber of commerce events

Downstate

• Church and civic organizations

• University events (if near campus)

• Local sports

Be Patient

Building community takes time—most people say 6-12 months before feeling connected. Keep showing up.